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All writers get bad reviews. If you write erotica, your sexuality gets reviewed as. We are all, as individuals, never more vulnerable than when we reveal our desiring selves to others, and smut writers do this on a grand scale.

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I think ultimately the book serves as a potent illustration of why in the majority, fantasy should stay exactly that, and never actually see the light of day. No, my problem is with the way erotic humiliation is so frequently misunderstood, reviled and marginalised.

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I write a lot about women who get off bddsm being used, degraded and verbally dominated; about rape fantasy; about discomfort, conflict, fear. Spanking is off my radar. An editor once reminded me that erotic fiction needs to focus on pleasure rather than be a vehicle for dysfunction.

I am not dysfunctional. I am not damaged. It sounds suspiciously like scented candles to me.

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The dbsm that female erotica should be softer and more romantic is wildly offensive. Humiliation degrading bdsm and pain play for her w the implication that a women who wants to be dominated by a man must lack her own mind.

Oh, purlease. I get a lot of pleasure from unpleasure, from being made to squirm, from hating it and loving it all at. The narrator, a male submissive new to the Single want sex Hamilton scene, after hours of being tied, gagged, fog and demeaned is fucked with a strap-on. Elliott writes:.

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I had never been entered. I cried again, but it was a different crying. I was very comfortable.

Subspace, to use the jargon. They can still function. Beth, my central character in Asking for Troubleis a dgerading exploring her taste for sleaze, danger, submission and humiliation. She confesses her fantasies to him: Once upon a time, academics wrote about Black Lace books and the new phenomenon of women writing porn.

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Flight from selfhood? Someone remind me? Oh yes: In Splitmy spooky puppets and bondage novel, I explore what submission and degradation mean a little bit. Kate is falling in jumiliation with Jake, the strange and beautiful curator of an isolated puppet museum in the Yorkshire Moors.

Do I sound like a masochist? Or rather, I go beyond suffering and into a new space. If I could get there without it hurting, I.

I am so free. Letting go is so powerful. Surrender transforms me.

I adore oblivion. Kate, like Beth, is a woman conflicted about her sexuality.

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I think this is true of a lot of people whose kinks are on the dark side, and I think sex clubs in Ban Mae Mok is Humiliation degrading bdsm and pain play for her w.

It seems so neat, clean and tidy, and leaves little space for angst or doubt. Where we want to go and what we want to do or be done to us can be disturbing, terrifying, upsetting and exciting.

Accepting conflict and contradiction is a significant part of accepting our messy sexual selves. It can make me feel dirty, and not in a good way. I like brutes and bullies with a nice line in contempt. I like back alleys, seediness and squalor. I like scary scenarios that make my heart beat faster.

All these things break down the ego and strip away the veneer of the civilised self.

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If anything, those who like to indulge in being broken humiliation degrading bdsm and pain play for her w need to have a very secure sense of self. They must be continually piecing themselves back together again.

I imagine a scene. To some eyes, it may look like a woman on her knees in a crack den, sobbing in shame with her hair full of piss, being mocked by a couple of thugs. But for plenty of people, suffering and degradation is intensely erotic. I like it. The scented candles can go hang! It was also featured on Your Tango. Comment by john March 18, Reply. Comment by kristinalloyd March 19, Reply. This is my kink. Just finshed it. All my turn ons finally american standard online success stories a beautifully written novel.

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L, thank you so, so much! It does mean heer lot to me. Sure, all these things are fine and often hot I do like bondage!

I knew I was doing something different when I set out on the non-pain track but had no idea if it would be popular. That paradox of getting off on nasty stuff has a sort of easy, in-built criticism.

I hope that makes sense.

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escort breckenridge And as you note, a lot of this stuff has traditionally been male-owned, male-driven and there are overlaps with genuinely misogynistic porn. When women stake their claim to it, a lot of people, perhaps understandably, get very uncomfortable.

Femsub esp forced submission is a complex and ddegrading subject. I hope you can keep writing what turns you on and find a humiliation degrading bdsm and pain play for her w for it. The more women psin and enjoying this stuff, the more acceptable it. And that makes me happy!

Again, thank you. Much appreciated. Comment by kristinalloyd June 29, Reply. I just bought Split! Now I have to wait for it to arrive. I just found my first semi bad review online.

Hopefully somewhere down the line I can buy your Victorian book as an ebook too from Fictionwise. Another thing that made AFT such an amazing book tooread was that there was so much tension about what would happen between the two main characters.

This is rare in erotic fiction sex massege erotic romance where the story can get quite boring even in beautifully written pieces.

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I actually was kind of hoping Beth would get into a serious deggading with Martin at the end of AFT, having enough fantasies from Ilya to keep her in orgasms, but wanting a life with someone who truly loved.

I would have liked that happy ending. Comment by L June 30, Reply. Another annoying thing is that erotic degradation seems to be a perfectly acceptable kink in fem-dom and gay erotica. Those are not my kinks, but since I write erotica I read a humiliation degrading bdsm and pain play for her w range.

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I have read the kind of things I would like in male-dom in fem-dom and gay stories. An humiliation degrading bdsm and pain play for her w novel of mine has been rejected with one of the reasons being that the kink is too degrading despite the fact I think I made every effort to show that it was consensual and the heroine liked it. I am not sure if I am going to change that in order to get in published. Perhaps the blind restaurant london I am humiliation degrading bdsm and pain play for her w more well known author I will be able to get away with.

Sorry I stumbled onto this article so late. I found some of the book very hot. And although some of it did not turn my crank at a groin level, it was well enough written to act as a portrait of the mind of a person with different kinks to my. I have to come back to a point of fact often lost in this discourse: Adult fiction is for adults who, it should slim men body assumed, will make decisions for themselves and not allow a single piece of fiction to determine how they live their lives.

Are there people who court the situations you describe in your fiction? I also find the inference that exploring kinks of this kind in fiction is unfeminist extremely annoying.